Have you ever come back from a holiday feeling more exhausted than before you left? You packed the bags, checked out of work, even swapped your inbox for a beach view—and yet, instead of feeling restored, you returned drained, anxious, maybe even guilty. This isn’t laziness or poor mindset. It’s your nervous system, quietly running […]
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It usually starts small. You’re at work, someone casually asks, “Hey, how are you?”—and suddenly you find yourself spilling every detail about your weekend meltdown, your relationship struggles, or why you didn’t sleep last night. Minutes later, you’re left with that familiar sinking feeling: “Why did I say all of that? Why do I keep […]
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We used to believe that healing only came with a dramatic life reset — a sabbatical, a retreat, or at the very least, a breakdown that forced us to stop. Maybe you’ve felt that way too: that the only path to recovery is through a Big Pause. But here’s the truth — most of us […]
Read MoreYou might think you’re choosing your partner with your mind.You’ve got your list, your dealbreakers, your “must-haves.”But here’s the plot twist: it’s your nervous system that’s really calling the shots — and it’s making choices you might not consciously agree with. If you’ve found yourself repeatedly in relationships that start with sparks but end in […]
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Imagine waking up every morning with a voice in your head that says, “You’re not good enough. You have to be perfect.” This voice drives you to work harder, achieve more, but it also fills you with dread when you fall short. Welcome to the world of perfectionism, where the pursuit of flawlessness can lead […]
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